Another thought: I've gone very dark and he is starting to get it that he can't treat me abusively anymore. I have acted on my personal boundary of protecting myself and he's getting the message louder than any words I have said over the past year.
STill confused!!!!
THoughts?
PS Lance thank you for your input on my thread, and since you are from MLC i welcome your input at anytime - in fact would appreciate more of it!!!!