My husband refuses counseling too Bobby. He says no counselor or even God himself could change his mind about wanting a divorce.

I'm sorry you are going through this. Does your wfie know that you have made the decision to move out?

Me- 32
WH- 32
T- 10 yrs
M- 7 yrs
DS- 9
DS-5
DD- one week old
Bomb- 01/2010
Separated - 03/2010