I just had the BEST 4 days, and then the WORST 4 hours.
First about the Best part--had 4 days with my sister and had such a good time. My S 14 FINALLY was with me for a little R and R and we went to a water park, and he got to play paintball, we saw a couple of movies and went out to dinner--it was just great!
Then I got home and everything seemed fine--my H had been somewhere but I just figured he went to his parents. He and S go get some dinner, and when they get back he wants to talk to me for 10 minutes. I said sure. I figured it was about my staying in the spare bedroom--he brought up how unhappy he was about that before I left and also how he had to go to a L because I made him scared about losing S. So I said, look, let me go on vacation and if you want to talk about it when I get back, fine. But I'm going on vacation and don't want to think about this stuff then.
But instead of THAT conversation, he proceeds to tell me that he's taken me off all the savings accounts, the home equitey account, the business account, which, I guess I was just a person that could sign and these weren't "joint accounts". All I have access to is the personal account which has very little in it right now! And I have to discuss what I want and why with him when I go to put money in the personal account.
Well, I lost my flippin mind pretty much. I said a lot of stuff--then went to a neighbor's house and spoke to them about it, then came home and went nuts again. I found that to be completely HOSTILE of him (and neighbors agreed) and just want him to leave. I just told him over and over, a MAN would make arraingements to LEAVE.
His attitude the entire time was one of complete smugness--like he was just TOOO superior. I hate him SO MUCH for the games he plays not only with me, but my poor S who had to witness this nonsense.
I will lose my mind if my H doesn't go. He has the trailer that is literally across the street he can go to. There is NO REASON for him to stay--how creative can I get to make him leave?? I read some fun suggestions over in Infidelity one time--I can do plenty, let me tell you--like putting a lock on the master bedroom door.
