And above all, I want to save ME from the grief/disbelief at how I am being treated after 15 years of a loving marriage that is gripping my heart.
Piano, I just feel for you. I will never give up 100% on your H but it goes without saying that the most important thing right now is for you to take care of yourself! And sometimes that does mean dropping the rope entirely on saving the marriage even before the spouse files for divorce. Sometimes we can take care of ourselves while still working on saving the marriage but it sounds like that he is hurting you way too much for you to do both. (((Piano)))
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
