Forward, I guess we can't help the way we feel, but I do hope that you use your common sense in this situation. Lets get real here, you DB'd your tail off, waited, hoped, and prayed, but yet your XH didn't move an inch. I personally have zero sympathy for him or others like him. After all, he got what he wanted and how can you feel sorry for someone when they get what they want. Anyway, I do hope you move on with your life.