Getting over the pain

[MarkIII]

I feel your pain, Im the husband of a waw. I'm 36 she is 24 and guess what she left me for a cop.. But I still want answers, she came up to me on the 8th of June I love you but not in love with you anymore and not happy. Reason was we moved to much wanted more stability. I said we can fix that. She came and went several times and that is how I found the texts,emails etc. When I confronted her she said she was giving me 2 weeks well that didnt last a week, she walked away on fathers day with my two little kids, filing for divorce and a restraining order to boot. (we never argued nor fought nothing) I'm only assusiming the cop buddy helped her con this up just to keep me at bay. It was like she was fine on the 7th and just flipped a switch the 8th, not the women I knew or think I know. I hurt so much cause she is holding my kids over my head and that RO. I just want answers.

I would give a million bucks to save my marriage but how my luck goes I'm sure it is done. Just waiting for the judge to review everything. I have custody of my 4 older kids from a previous relationship of 13 yrs and I work in a public school system. So I think I'm a fit father. I just found this forum not to long ago and reading and trying to understand things.

It will take time for you to heal and trust again. Keep up the counseling dont be shy in those sessions. Most people been telling me just leave her alone let her go or screw her and not in the good way. But I was so much in love and thought we were bf's. I still say I would never seen this a coming.

So keep your head up, keep up counseling keep loving him or trying too. Remember we are all human and all make mistakes a time or two. I'm sorry he got caught up in the hype of the 27 y/o but I was there and know ow he was thinking and it was not with the right part..

Good luck too you