Can I ask you how did you come to the inner peace in yourself? What helped you come to realize?

Thanks from a real newbie who has not read or got the book yet..

Mark

Me 36
WAW 24
S 4
D 2(My Kids/her step kids)
S15,D14,S10,D11
Love you but not in love with you 6/8/2010
Left/Bomb 6/20/2010
D filed 6/23/2010
M 4
T 5 1/2