My title is the title of the audiobook I am enjoying. Just today it was talking about things needed for regret-free relationships. One of the top things was honesty. The author said, "One thing to know about liars. Liars lie."
Sounds obvious, right? He went on to say that liars start out with small lies and then go on to bigger lies. Eventually they tell so many lies to so many people about so many things that they may convince themselves that the truth is actually relative. And we must remember that we cannot ever truly believe that a liar is telling the truth, about anything. Sad, but true.
Anyway the timing could not be better. Kids got home w/Dan today from their mini vacation. Nathan was talking about him and Dan going on a waterslide together. I asked where Sydney was.....
Nathan replied...
"Oh. Dad's friend Stephanie was there. She watched Sydney while we did the waterslide."
He said she had brown hair and dark tan skin. YEP, it was THE Stephanie. Nice going, Dan....so glad that when I asked months ago if you were seeing her, you said no. That when you ended it in Sept. of last year, it was done. And then I asked in Feb if you were seeing anyone, you said no. I said I would just like the courtesy of knowing before you introduced anyone to the kids. You assured me you would never do that without telling me first, but that you weren't seeing anyone yet and didn't know when that would be...
And in April when I said something about one day having a man do things with me and the kids, you said "I don't WANT someone to help me parent the kids." (Meaning you would date just for companionship not an extra parent.) REALLY? Then why was she watching our child while you were with Nathan?
Then I remembered.....Liars Lie.
(Oh, and we leave in the am for chicago. I will purge this from my mind while we are on vacay so his BS doesn't ruin OUR good time.)
