MWG, I sure hope the job situation turns around for you soon. You are ready for some real luck.

I think you're doing the right thing to let your H alone. He has to deal and do what he needs to ON HIS OWN.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D