Looking for help with WAW

[robx]

Actually he did tell you what he believes your only chance would be, re-read his original reply to your question, shown here:

Just look at how emotional and begging and weak you again came across. I think you have destroyed it to a point that it may be past the point of no return of her.

I believe your ONLY chance is to find another woman that your WS thinks you have the hots for.

You just have NOT displayed the qualities that you mentioned for any (if at all) length of time. YOu always go back to getting emotional and begging and apologizing and weak. You get emotional. I don't think you realize it but she is still trying to let you down easy. You still fail to admit to yourself that "it really may be over)(which is an important step in letting go) You still are wanting to hope that "I still think she loves me deep inside and it is buried"... you have to STOP that kind of talk. You are in the "hope trap"...