Thank you folks. Son and I had a great day today. We went dirtbiking and just had a ball.
Wife went to be with her girlfriends last night, 4 blocks away,and then today she went and lounged in the pool with them. First she invited son and I and then it got changed to girls only.
Facebook pics are up of the afternoon before you say anything and it's legit. I really don't see OM in the picture.
I'll tell you though, a 47 yo mom of 4 is spinning in the head buying a string bikini. That one makes me wonder.
These girlfriends showed up in our lives about 3 years ago. They are all married and are great people.
I've been such a non listening depressed [censored] the last few years that these families have literally become more important to her than us it seems. Even though I know that's not true I'm beginning to see why I was so grumpy. I just wish that we would have had the comm. skills to work through that.
You know, I'm almost glad she's done this, thus, the title of my thread. It has been like the world is opened up to me.
I love and appreciate my wife again(even though I cant tell her that) I've gone back to church after 35 years.
My son wanted to do that and has been going with the wife off and on for 8 months or so. It feels good!
I just have a new appreciation of family. Even if ( shudder, please god) it ends,I'm going to be a nicer better person.
Anyhow, wife came home exhausted and probably abit buzzed with the alien attitude going.
I gave her awhile and then basically forced her to hear of our adventure in a positive upbeat way. After she relaxed she listened well and then went back to her room.
That's another frickin' mistake right there now. I bought her her own laptop last aug for her b day.
4 people in this house all off in there rooms on a computer.
Anyways, that's my day. Not bad and alot of good. Here's to a great week!
