Allen - Requesting Your Help....

[ShellDoll]

Yes, he is O-6 Navy captain in the Reserves who was called to active duty for 420 days beginning April 30 to Afghanistan (initially Iraq, now Afghanistan). He has hundreds of officers, sailors under his command.

I have always supported his career and I know how much he RESPECTS the military. His father served in WW2. We have his beineget (sp??) from WW2 and other items from his father.

I want to expose, but not sure how to pull it off successfully and with little impact to me. He is still paying the mortgage for our marital home. Initially, when I threatened to expose him, he said he would put me out. Then he realized that there would be no one here to take care of the house when he is deployed and "let" me stay.

I have a L, but I am not happy with him. My H tried to get a separation agreement in place before he deployed, but he left me and my L no time to respond because they gave it to me 3 days before he deployed. My H blamed me for not having it in place before he left.

Since he left, he has been trying to be "nice". Or at least that is what he wants me to think. I decided earlier this week not to respond to any of his emails (no matter how nice they were). I haven't even check my personal email since this past Monday. He has tried to skype me once this week, but I signed off (and haven't been signed in since).

I am not sure what he is thinking about, but I did see that he created a FB page and the OW is a friend. He NEVER sent me a friend invite. So I blocked him yesterday if he would ever try to add me. I also tried to block her, but she apparently cannot now be located on FB. What is that about?

I do not like this woman. When I 1st found out about the affair, I called her and would hang up (I know childish), but I think she is now doing the same to me. So I don't even answer my home phone...

Do you think he is communicating with her while he is deployed?