I assume your H is in the military? - Yes, he is a captain in the navy.
So he is an O-6 (Captain) in the MILITARY? The Navy?
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I am just scared to hurt his military career. It is the one thing he TRULY respects and LOVES. What do I do?
Careers are JUST THAT. Careers. Maybe he should have REREAD the UCMJ BEFORE he was with this other woman. He likely has 500-1000 subordinates under him, and they are supposed to LOOK TO HIM as an EXAMPLE.
HE HAS FAILED MISERABLY.
If you expose, they will likely let him retire honorably if he does so WILLINGLY. Then he can get a great job in the civilian sector and be home more. They might also slap him on the wrist, but he will NEVER FORGET what he did wrong.
If he wants to play hardball, then YOU have to be ready to play too. Contact the JAG office on the base, and let them know a CAPTAIN is having an affair. That will get their attention.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
