Expose to anyone who would put pressure on him to THINK TWICE about the decision he's making.

Dude, I would be worried about the woman's HUSBAND showing up while I am living there... would'nt YOU?

just LOGICALLY that would be my FIRST worry is that the chick's HUSBANd won't like and he will show up and beat the crap outa me...

I am thinking QS you get some of yoru buddies to pay this guy a visit and tell him to back off...