When my wife goes away for work or to family, she NEVER calls, never texts, ot initiates ANY type of contact.
. . . yet.
You're still only about 6 weeks from your initial exposure. Patience.
QS
Puppy
Originally Posted By: Seeing Red
QS we're 3.5 months into our separation and WH STILL never calls or texts unless he wants something - and I would say our separation isn't nearly as contentious as yours. Give it time...
I wrote this what - 5 or 6 hours ago?
WH's out running errands and just called me a few minutes ago to "chat" -- about nothing, really. A tree on the road, an interesting sign he saw, a nice house for sale. You know - husband stuff.
I had to blow the cobwebs off his ringtone to hear him, but it DOES happen, just like everyone here says. Just give it time, QS...
The odd thing is HE DOESN'T KNOW she is after him. He is living with family sleeping on a couch, and is just dying to get out of there.
She can be very calculating when she wants to be, so I am guessing she will pounce when she thinks the time is right.
But yes, this guy is going to FINALLY have his own place now, where he can bring back chicks when he wants to.
I'd LOOOVE to be there when she gets home one night and hears him banging away at some chick.
Or she is going to get all super-needy-clingy like she gets when she is infatuated, and the guy is going to be literally suffocated to death.
My LEFT BRAIN is telling me should I get a better job, to just stay in this house and let her continue to pay half the mortgage AND rent; while begging from her parents.
If she then wants spousal support, my LEFT BRAIN tells me I will be happy to oblige in court filings, but I will also file an affidavit changing from "no fault" to "fault" divorce on the grounds of INFIDELITY.
I will then submit copies of the naked photos, and the text message from the Facebook guy, stating she was coming to visit him My LEFT BRAIN can only assume that since she travels so much, that he came up to visit her to have sex. Therefore, I could and would subpoena text message records from BOTH of them. I'd also submit EVERYTHING ELSE I HAVE in order that the Court has the most information it needs. It is LOGICAL to want an Honorable Court to have all the information it needs to make a RATIONAL DECISION.
And my LEFT BRAIN tells me that his commanding officers are going to be THRILLED to see all of that stuff in a court filing, and they probably will be so excited that they might just reinstate charges against him.
And that MARRIED FATHER OF 2 whom she also sent naked pictures to, I am POSITIVE his WIFE will be ecstatic that his name and number comes up in the PHONE RECORDS where she sent him pictures. The Court MUST also know this as well.
Logical, Captain, very logical....
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 07/25/1011:18 PM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
Why dont you just expose this new OM to his family?
He is moving in with a married woman? HOW OLD?
Tell his parents...
Well her parents already know and don't care. She has already PRE-REVERSE EXPOSED them with BS about him being too young ect. His parents won't care either, as he had said in chat conversations hid dad was only worried about him being able to make his student loan payments.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 07/25/1011:19 PM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
I got a roommate! And he's gorgeous! Don't tell anyone. I don't want people getting the wrong idea....but JACKPOT!
The dude is 24 and can only afford like 35% of the rent for the place, AND he's buying a brand new car he can't afford.
She is BEGGING from her parents for money, yet STILL letting this guy live there for less than HALF.
So in effect, her parents are going to FINANCE her little love shack while she pounces on a guy 7 years younger with NO MONEY.
I didn't FULLY see it until now, but this is a downward spiral to oblivion. Is she really thinking that when he moves in that she is going to put the moves on him and everything just work out? HOW PATHETIC.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 07/25/1011:39 PM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
It's time for her to learn her life lessons and the CONSEQUENCES of her DECISIONS FULL FORCE.
So she will probably sleep with him a few, or a few dozen, times. I am getting a divorce, and nothing will stop this woman right now. She is SINGLE in her mind and wants to act that way. I can't control her.
Even if I expose, it may do nothing. But, if I wait for the right MOMENT, then I might be able to launch a nuclear missile at them BOTH to their HR department for failing to disclose a relationship. Or they are breaking company policy by dating within the same division.
Seriously, read my above post with her text message. All I can say to that is: REALLY?
Does that sound like a woman I WANT to be married to right now?
She has a ton of bricks laying on a house of cards right now. It is only a matter of time before she is crushed by them.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
QS, considering your highly reactive emotional state, I would suggest you do one of two things regarding your intel:
1. Only check it 1x/week or 2x/month.
2. Ask a trusted, discreet third party to check it for you, and only let you know things when you NEED to do, because you're imminently threatened legally or financially, for instance.
Looking at highly-charged, raw intel, DAILY, is tough enough for people who are able to get into "game mode." You're nowhere near that stage, and I agree with what someone said above -- this is sucking the life out of you.
