am dying to know what it was that made her change her mind on vacation
I don't think it works that way. Somebody who leaves a M has usually been thinking about it for a while. There is no single trigger. They've been "feeling" like leaving for a while, and they finally just do it.
Maybe it wasn't what happened on vacation. Maybe it was what didn't happen (her feelings didn't suddenly change)?
Who knows? Maybe she just didn't want to miss out on the vacation?
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-