Get into the left brain man... you are diving into the deep end of Right Brain cove and you don't know how to swim.
Your wife and you are both doing the same thing right now you know that? She wants to think negatives and wallow in how miserable she is... and then puts a brave face on publically...
You are BOTH doing the SAME THING
I am tellin you man get OUT of the HOUSE and do something else for the night. And start packing her crap as soon as she leaves for her next trip.
Toss it into a dry storage... do NOT wait for her to pack with her friends.. you may as well slit your wrists...
In my opinion I say get some buddies together to move ALL her CRAP out of the house next trip and put in dry storage...
Leave her a couch to sleep on and that's it... The rest you lock up in a locker someplace and toss the key at her feet... Pay for no more than one month of storage for it.
Right now what have you done to prepare for her moving out other than quiver?
YOU have WORK to do.. YOU move her out... why wait for HER to do it.. It's just giong to HURT you and SHE will make CERTAIN of that...
