Lala Sorry for this but I have to throw this out to the group before I go on….Am I the only one getting totally confused between lala and lola? LMAO….Sorry Lala – I had too.
No problem, she is a great girl to get confused with!
Originally Posted By: ericmsant2
If you are comfortable with him in the house are you SURE that you do not want this as a way of maintain a connection? If you are, then know that you may be setting yourself up to be hurt.
I'm sure that it is not to maintain connection - I really want DD to be in a good routine without things changing so much and for her to be comfortable. Perhaps that the control freak in me! It is funny though, since I've been back, I don't count down the hours until H arrives here and find myself not being sad when he leaves. Baby steps!
Originally Posted By: ericmsant2
My advice (FWIW) would be to focus on getting a job, figuring out what that schedule would be and then having a sit down with him to agree to what YOU want for YOUR DD.
So are you saying that I shouldn't bring this up until I secure a job and have more of a schedule?
