2nd M 2nd separation just starting

[TimeHeals]

Its weird her text about the "I guess it doesn't matter anymore"

If it were a question (?), the answer would be "I guess not".

Get used to this. She's going to be all over the place. Pull way back, go with the flow for now.

Don't tell her how you feel unless she asks, and then be brief but honest (e.g. I feel a little sad, a little angry, and a little bit like no matter what happens, I will be OK).

You need to heal to see this objectively and to stop reading every nuance of every word she utters like a mystic trying to read tea leaves.