After Exposure - Keep It Going

[Quicksilver264]

Well I just saw a copy of the lease, and her move in date is in the middle of August.

But she will be away the last 3 weeks, so it is likely Labor Day weekend she moves out of the house. And it's a 1 year lease with a pretty big penalty for opting out of it.

Puppy, you are right my brain goes STRAIGHT for the negatives on all this. It seems like it WANTS to imagine all the horrible things that could be going on in her own apartment. It's almost like some part of me just wants to have it happen so it can be over with. Just like my dog at the end, I felt at peace when it was finally over and I had faced it FOR REAL and not in my head.

It's likely that once she moves out, I will never see her again except for the division of assets and final court appearance.

She went to A HUGE amount of trouble to conceal that she was looking for apartments and signed a lease. I mean as far as staying with relatives 40 miles away, and then backtracking to the apartment complex with her mom the next day.

I guess I can focus on the fact that she just signed a lease that IS AS MUCH as her half of the mortgage. So, if I decide to stay in the house, she still has to pay half the mortgage PLUS her rent where she is mooching off her parents.

Although her apartment complex is REALLY nice, I can stay right here and make her keep begging for money from her parents.