I guess I should have mentioned that she is the one that brought up dwelling I just didn't disagree. She said our R and M started on lies(my part of course) and that how could I expect a M to work with all the baggage she says we have. I did a lot of listening didn't always agree with her "feelings" but I did for the most part not do what I would have normally done, yell argue and defend.
The only time I really got tough was in regards to the house and kids. I'm staying kids r staying.
Its weird her text about the "I guess it doesn't matter anymore" she guesses? She told me alst night we r done there should be no guessing.
