If you would like to continue this discussion you can do it on my thread and maybe you can read it while your over there.

Originally Posted By: timeheals
Excluding somebody from your life because they do harmful things is very healthy and sometimes must be done.


Harmful by whose definition?

Yours?

Then do I have to ask the milkman what is harmful to me too?

The point of this is to go your own journey. Take control of yourself.

Someone hurt me do I

1) Run away and call it healhy
2) Stay and face my fears

Conquer them
Live my own values
Live my own choices
Grow
Heal
Learn about Grace
Learn about Love
and so much more...


It is healthy to recognize that you cannot control others.

What others choose to do they do to themselves.

You can only control how you react to them.

Once you learn that then you are on your way to being healthy and free

... and guess what?

You don't have to walk around scared about the next time someone "harms" you and you have to

Run away...

Again.

Disagree with you?

With every bone in my body friend.

Wholeheartedly and with every bone.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am