Don't agree. You don't have to be broken or anything of the kind to protect yourself from harm.
Excluding somebody from your life because they do harmful things is very healthy and sometimes must be done.
It's not because you are broken that you do that. You do that because you are NOT broken.
Now, with the integrity version of this, I can agree: you don't go cheat, for example, because somebody cheated on you. You don't do something bad because bad has be done to you.
And once you get over the pain of betrayal, you aren't broken because somebody else did something in their brokeness that hurt your feelings.
You do what is right, and sometimes this means not only letting people go, it sometimes means giving them a push on their way. You don't do that out of fear, anger, or resentment: you do it because it is the right thing to do, and you know that.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 07/25/1006:34 PM.
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