I can't believe that your dr would even agree to let your ex do this. Since when did he become an expert? Just a year ago he was in denial that the kids were autistic and now because of money he thinks he is informed enough to make medical decisions. I get that your dr doesn't want to get between divorced couples but she is supposed to be an advocate for her patient. If she can't do that, then it is time to change doctors.
Glad to hear about the tv! Now we can plan movie nights!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
