Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Originally Posted By: puppy
So why is no one supporting PEI


Not sure I would agree with that statement.

Challenging her yes.

Not supporting? At least for me I don't feel that way.



You're right, TG -- I stand corrected. I should have said "So why, when she does this, does everyone seem to challenge her decision?"

I also strongly disagree with this. Strongly AGREE with the first half, but the second half, no:

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If you are making a decision to move on as a reaction to something your spouse did to you or some deal breaker then you haven't healed from that.


Dealbreakers are, by their very definition, something over which one SHOULD move on. Otherwise, they weren't really dealbreakers (or, as I like to call them, Boundaries of Personal Integrity) to begin with.

Puppy