After Exposure - Keep It Going

[Quicksilver264]

Another tough morning.

So what I don't get is that Tupy's idea on protection phase is supposed to allow time to heal for me, and she also says that breaking the attachment bond almost always causes the other spouse to begin to want and look for it again.

When my wife goes away for work or to family, she NEVER calls, never texts, ot initiates ANY type of contact.

I mean I stay as far away from her as POSSIBLE, and she does the same.

I have been wondering if there is a "reverse divorce busting" process, where the WAS uses the same TYPES of techniques to move FURTHER away from the marriage. i.e. relying on family, getting a life, detaching, and initiating their own protection phase.

OR, she is just running and running from the pain, and will try ANYTHING to make it stop and end.

So am I to guess the process she is using isn't healthy, and doesn't involve hard introspection and self-discovery?

All I know is that she is moving out sometime this upcoming month. And she is REALLY excited about it from what I have gathered from my intel.