Rubbish. Dust off all your DBing skills and go be the gorgeous woman that you are. Who cares who that old fling is there with? That's his drama not yours.

Ally, go to the party, smile at him, say Hi and then go and have fun and meet other new and interesting people.

We have this ridiculous notion that there are only a handful of people on earth we can intimately or emotionally connect with. it's just not true. So you had a thing with this guy - perhaps he was sent to open your heart again - to remind you that you are still a sensual woman with a lot to give to the world. That doesnt' mean just because it didn't work out with him it's not going to work out with someone else.

Imagine if you didn't go and the future man of your dreams was at that party just waiting to meeting you?

Go to the party Alison. You know this stuff and you know how to strut your stuff. He can't hurt you. She can't hurt you. He's just a bloke you once knew.

Get out your party dress.

Take care, V

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.