"Can't stand for anyone to call your bluff can you?"
I said...
"I can't stand hypocrisy, and YOU are the epitome of hypocrisy. You've done the very thing with our daughter that you falsely accuse me of with our son."
She then said...
"Daughter's decision is solely based on your abusive behavior towards her and the favoritism you show towards son. Son's decision is based on the lies you've told him, especially about me, and you buying him stuff to stay with you".
The fact is that my daughter's decision is based upon 'encouragement' and 'schooling' from my STBXW and her family. They haven't been as successful with my son. He has been able to see through her lies, deceipt, and manipulation...and that of her family. His decision (and it is totally his decision) is based solely upon the way she is 'now' compared to the way that I am 'now'.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.