punkin, I'm sorry he's acting this way, but he's in s nit because he wants his money. In his mind, he feels that the only way to get you to move out on doing what he wants is to act like a complete and utter @ss.
I wouldn't contact him again for a very long time. Let him make the next move.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
