I gave Aunt Inez the address of where to send the paperwork to H, leaving me out of it. She understands. Went through a similar situation herself 20 years ago with her H.
So, for the moment, there doesn't seem to be any reason for us to have any contact w/s/e unless the property sells, at least until after our anniversery in November.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011