21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

Thought I'd be nice and just ask if she wanted to go to St Luois with me and the kids. To my surprise she did. Of course a 2 hour trip we eventually talked.

Readers Digest version: She says she still loves me but doesn't know if she wants to be married. She does not have a laundry list of changes for me. She is unhappy and doesn't think she has depression. She just wants to do what she wants to do whenever she wants to do it.

Her first IC is scheduled for 4 Aug. I will feel pretty damn guilty if I file on Mon and change everyone's lives (mostly kids) to find out she does have a chemical imbalance (depression).

Chuck