I think Coach was alluding to when the LBS pursues the WAS when the WAS does not want a relationship... :-) Been there, done that.
i am so dense when it comes to this db stuff!!
this guy texted me a few times today. i just ignored the text msgs. i don't like being texted at 5:30 am on a Saturday AM. i'm just not interested. i hope the message is clear this time.
you know, i have left my h alone. i've stopped pursuing a long time ago. i never asked about working on the m, no hugs, nothing. i don't even inquire about his daily activities. i don't call, i don't text, i don't stay home just because he does. i continue with my GAL activities. i'm still trying to work on putting the best 'me' forward. not for h. but for everyone to see.
pdt, steady: thanks for being there when i needed the advice. it was so sudden. and you responded. if it weren't for you, i wouldn't have learned my lesson. both pieces of advice helped. i realized that i do want to be with someone eventually one day. but i want it to be right. i won't settle.
i am so dense when it comes to this db stuff!! 