I was also thinking of buying "Winning Your Wife Back Before It's Too Late" and giving it a read through.

I have alot of time on my hands, and reading helps me to focus my brain too.

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed