Well thank you for the kind words. My DR showed up yesterday. I do not see any good coming from the both of us living there.
One needs to move. Luckily, I've got a brother close that I think will let hang out and I'm going to go right to moving out and GAL. Work on me and get to where I need to be.
Bro's house is close enough that my son can spend alot of time with me.
Let me be the first to say it: DO NOT MOVE OUT!
Give her space and relax and GAL and everything else you read here and in MWD's books, but do not move anywhere. How could that possibly help? What signal does that send to your wife?