Not sure what's going on but it's different. D was having dinner with H each week but with homework she decided she didn't want to go so H is coming here for dinner each week so he still sees D but D can do her work as well. Working out quite well cos H is actually helping her with work.

Yesterday D invited H for dinner (weekend)with us. He came and stayed to watch a movie. On leaving, offered to bring dinner for next time.

I can see this is about strengthening r between H and D which is so wonderful. H and I agree that this is a week to week proposal and either one can pull out of the arrangement. Am I stupid to allow this arrangement?