FFH: I know, it's hard. I'm still living with H too. He is not dating, and we are still sleeping in the same bed even.
One thing that might help you is to stop calling H a "friend." How many of your other friends do you go to sleep with?
Surely you can be friendly with him, but to call him a friend is a bit dishonest. And I think it will backfire in the long run, esp if your "friend" suddenly gets a girlfriend who is not you. Then he might not be as interested in sharing a bed.
See? It's hard but another word might help you out to make peace with the situation.
Well...right now he's NOT a friend! LOL And yeah - I know it's weird given our situation that we're still sleeping together. It's a big bed and believe me, he hugs that mattress as close to the edge as he can, lol. Make no mistake, there's nothing going on but sleeping. Well, after I learned that he was not seriously looking to work on the R, sex stopped. He still chooses to come to bed and go to sleep though, rather than sleeping elsewhere in the house. (I'm sure not getting out of my bed!)
Of course, we are going on this weekend thing for couples in crisis next weekend. Right now, it's like everything is on hold. What happens after this weekend, the friend issue and everything else, hinges on how we come back next Sunday night!
