I don't believe there's an OM. At least no hard evidence, though some circumstantial evidence. There might be a well-hidden EA, but there also might be a tooth fairy. I think my wife has really decided that she'd rather live alone than live with me. (ouch that hurts to type). Our MC said she sees no sign of another party, and my sister works with my W, and hasn't seen anything funky either. Nothing on FB, email, phone records, anything. My wife isn't very computer savvy, so I doubt she knows all the tricks I'd pull if I was in an A.
I'm working out, and have lost about 40 pounds the last 2 months. I'm getting new clothes since my stuff doesn't fit, I'm eating much much better than ever, and trying to spend as much time with my Ds as possible. Sleep is the biggest problem, I tend to wake up around 2am everynight and have a hard time falling back to sleep.
I have to agree that being around the opposite sex helps tremendously, but my options are really limited right now. I can't date anyone until she moves out, and I'm not the type to troll the local bars. Flirting is fun, but coming home to a cold bedroom sucks.
My biggest passion is to write my Great Novel. I've been freelance writing for over a decade, and have a great idea for my book, but concentrating on my writing is very difficult right now. I'm kind of saving that for when she's out of the house. Maybe I need to work on it now...
