That's where I am, too, Antonia...

The booze scares the hell out of me (I'm Irish) but the personality changes?? They are also bizarre in the extreme. None of our friends (all of whom he has dropped) and almost all of his closest colleagues at work are appalled at his behavior - and how he threw away his ethics and reputation along with me.


Discovered OW1: 1/10, H refused to talk.
H moved in w 1st OW: 3/10
H cheated on OW1: 12/10
H left OW1, moved in w OW2: 4/11
D: 9/11
Still miss H. Don't understand, H just left, never even talked w me.