Oh thanks, WN! Stbxh just picked up S and I told him that we visited his sister and that S had fun playing with his (10 and 11 year old) cousins. He asked how his sister was doing. I shared that she was making and selling purses and was very talented with that. I added that I found out that their (step)dad's wife divorced him and that I heard he was visiting their mom! Yep- their mom divorced dad, mom divorced stepdad. Dad and stepdad each remarried. Stepdad always loved his mom, despite his remarriage. Well, stepdad went out to visit their mom for a couple of weeks! (Who has MS and is in a wheelchair btw).
Why was I sharing this stuff with stbxh? Something to do with me not wanting to lose the bond. Or what? I don't know.
I am looking at our disgusting front yard and thinking of how I want to make a good impression on any of my dates if they ever get to the point where they pick me up at my house (like zoobrew). So I ask stbxh what I can do to work on the yard to clean it up a bit. He said he would do it.
He said he was going to take a couple of days off from work "some time" and come over to the house to work on the yard.
OK off to clean the house for my best friend's visit--we are going out tonight with her and her H and maybe another friend! Yippee!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
