Gatsby, thanks! I just hope I can keep my changes that I made for me and use the info for a new relationship one day! BUT I could use some of your detaching ability...hate this up and down crap on my end!
About Bi-polar- my best friend's date has it and he actually does very well being consistent as long as he is taking his meds. Seriously, he used to be angry or depressed instead of elated and depressed. Now he is mellow and sensitive...my poor best friend never had that while she was growing up. So she had to get used to a whole new dad when he started getting treatment when she was an adult!
And yes, you do have to want him back. What do you think will help you feel this way? What will you need to see him do?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
