One last thing - What I am trying to explain and maybe I have not been clear. When your husbands MLC is over. He will maybe, look out the window and say where is PEI? Oh she divorced me and moved on with her life. That door is closed, at that point. He will not come looking for you. You will have a self fufilling prophesy at that point because you have shut the door. That is all I am trying to say. If that is what you want. I will not stand in your way. Shut the door. You will be right I will be wrong. No problem.
I am just wondering by all of what you have written if that is what you really want? You speak about unconditional love. I agree that you must act "as if" he is never coming back. You must live your life for you, for your children. I am just asking are you sure you want to shut the door? Are you totally confident that he is gone.
