Quick update: H came home and stated he had to get car check out while he was gone because it was making a bad noise. That may or may not be true, but whatever.
Incidentally, he did end up on a personal shopping spree. Bought himself 3-4 pairs of pants and new shirts. Now, am I against him spending money on himself? No, of course not. BUT... he did just purchase lots of clothing for himself just 8 weeks ago. All this attention to his appearance and his self-absorption is quite sickening. When he came home with all this and S14 asked if he'd gotten him anything, H just kinda looked at him like "Why would I do that?" and commented as such as well. Can't remember his exact words but that was the implication. (I promise I'm not reading into it...S14 looked at me like, "Ohhh Kay....." He also stated he went by Starbucks and S14 asked if he got him anything and once again, No... it's all about him. He never asks any of us anymore if he can get us anything. Even when I was out last night I texted them (H and boys) to see if they wanted anything from Starbucks... we've always done that. Not H anymore!
Just to add...of course he went straight to playing XBox once home but that's not surprising. He's not done any of the prerequisite homework for upcoming weekend yet. You log on to this site and while you don't have access to your partner's work, it does show whether they've completed it or not. I bet he doesn't even do it. I'm not supposed to say anything. They said they'll deal with it if he doesn't do it.
