I have a question for you. Do you like cigars? If so, I can't think of much more relaxing than hanging on the porch puffing away. Unless you add some tunes to the equation.
If not, you ought to try it. But only good cigars. Hand made only. It's funny, but it really works. Plus going to the cigar store is a fun way to get out of the house for a while. Let me know if you want to give it a shot. I can turn you on to some brands that make good starter stogies that are mild and won't make you queasy.
Just a thought. It's a regular part of my "chill out therapy"
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs