Sometimes the best jui-jitsu fighters know they have to take a pounding in order to get to the right position and/or guard so they can then turn around and dominate the situation.

You are in that position now. You are going to have to suck this up, and DOCUMENT EVERYTHING and just KEEP QUIET.

Then you will be able to DIRECT YOUR CONVERSATIONS, TRAP HIM, AND PIN HIM based on all your itel.

So take what he is giving, and just know that you are going to use HIS OWN MOMENTUM AND FOCUS AGAINST HIM when you achieve a better position.

Gosh, it just seems like we are all going back and forth with each in one big sh*tstorm of marriage, doesn't it?

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed