"I want to see my son. Please bring him over to my house on your next day to work."
I told my son what she said, and he didn't want to go over there. He wanted to go to his grandparent's house instead while I was at work. Keep in mind that she and our oldest daughter have been encouraging, successfully, my 13 y/o daughter to stay with them exclusively. They have been much less successful with my son, athough they have tried. I haven't seen my 13 y/o daughter since the middle of March, when we got back from Spring Break. And when she sends me these hateful texts, she NEVER mentions our youngest daughter, nor the fact that neither I, nor her grandparents, have seen her in over 4 months. I haven't encouraged, or 'schooled' my son at all. He is making his own decisions regarding this.
Just received the following test message from her...
"You didn't learn from your mistakes, you didn't change, and you didn't become a better person. The only person you love or know how to love is yourself. To this day you are still as selfish as the day I met you. If you have actually changed like you try and say you have, then you would not keep my son from me like you have. You know that he and I had a bond and you couldn't stand it because you weren't in control of it. Now that you have him away from me you have corrupted his little mind. You have told him lie after lie about me. And so has your family. He will one day realize it and resent you to the bone for it. You are a sick man. One day you will have your material crap but you'll still be sitting all alone with it and no one to share it with. You will never change. And you prove that more and more each day you keep our son from me."
See what I mean? Not one word was mentioned about our youngest daughter! Her hypocrisy is unfathomable! She accuses me of doing the very thing that she has been doing with our youngest daughter all along! And she always attacks me with the "you'll never change" stuff! She uses that as a weapon when she doesn't get her way!
I still haven't responded to this crap...but I'm tempted to!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
