So - why the story about remaining friends on the homepage? Why would anyone endorse positively reinforcing negative behavior???
I'd love to know the answer to that one, Sunny. It wasn't written by MWD, and it doesn't even match some of the stuff that she herself teaches in DB/DR (boundary-setting, LRT, just to name two).
See my thoughts on your other thread by the same name in Newcomers. Suffice here for me to say: IT DOESN'T WORK, and DBing is supposed to be all about "Do what works."
