Thanks (((Nikita))). You're not rambling. That is a pretty short post. Some of mine get ridiculously long.

WAS are so weird. My W is claiming to be the victim through all this. I'm the one who is "beating her down", "Sticking it to her", and causing her all the stress. Poor W.

Good luck with your sitch. I will try to catch-up with it sometime. There are so many on here it is tough to stay on top of them all.

I'd say go on the vacation without H.

I'll catch up with you soon and thanks for the support. I am feeling a lot better lately.