Question: What if H talks to the kids about "his" side. Should I talk to them about what to say in response? It's easy for me to say they should stand up to his behavior and what he says, but being very respectful kids, they are not going to probably be able to say much other than try to make him feel better. It's easier said than done for a LBS to take a stand, much less a teenager to a dad they've always respected and loved.

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