Gucci, I have to respectfully disagree with you that I haven't done any of those things. Sure I have. I'm the one taking care of the house, I was the only one dealing with the previous agent, I am the only one dealing with the bank, I am still working more than one job, I'm going back to finish my degree, I have left her alone since the flowers. Is this not leading quietly and strongly? If not then I'm must be confused.
My conversation this past week was 9 months of built up emotions. Ok, I regret letting my emotions show. I didn't beg her though. How do I always want to talk to her about the R all of the time? She hasn't talked to me about the R in 9 months. Am I missing something here?
You didn't answer my question of how to get someone to get those feelings back. I thought going dark was the right thing to do now? I have left her alone for about 3 months. We only talked recently because of the house.
I'm trying to listen to your advice but I don't think you realize that I am trying. Again, maybe I'm confused by the advice?
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch