It's really not bothering me anymore what his grandmother said. If they want to stick up for their selfish grandson and not their great-grandchildren, then so be it. Bworl is right, I got my own family that sticks behind me and the boys. With the exception of a few family members, his whole family loves to play victims even though they bring most of the stuff unto themselves.
2moro, I have to disagree with you that I am not ready for a relationship. I have been alone now for 4 years. I would say the last 1 and 1/2 to 2 years I have been over ex and not wanting him back. For a long time I was grateful to be by myself as I got to focus on just me. But now I am missing male companionship. I am not talking about getting serious with anyone, but I wouldn't mind dating. I know I'm ready.
